Gain a very unfair advantage in life, with knowledge not taught in school
“You can have it all!”
If you are a seeker of something ‘more’, I want to share with you something that I hope will give you the answers you seek and turn your dreams into reality.
*calm and zen melody, increasing in volume*
It’s 6:15, and your eyes are drowsy from a night of too little sleep. “Again? When will I feel rested when I get up in the morning?” you might ask yourself. I know I did. Every day was a repeat of the one that came before it.
You head off to work, and hopefully, you’re one of the lucky few who feel amazing on the way to your job, because you just can’t wait to get started. For me, my job was hauling hot, fresh-from-the-mold car parts from one rack to the next, 8-16 hours per day. On a normal day, I would have at least 20.000 steps on my pedometer.
Once I got home, dinner was on the agenda, although the majority of the time, I was eating overtime pizza. It was a win-win, because I rarely had time or energy to cook, so it was easy. The stack of empty pizza boxes often reached the ceiling, a feat I took pride in at the time.
If I wasn’t called for work during the weekends, I would hit the pub with my fellow coworkers from the factory. Two days later, I would step back into the huge, hot hall. The smell of molten aluminum was overwhelming every time.
That was my normal life, along with all the other souls from my town and those who lived in the districts that were neighboring it.
You might not work in a factory. Maybe you’re an office worker, a store clerk, a mechanic, a taxi driver, or any of the infinite titles and positions we have available. But time is equal and precious to all of us, and that’s what I want to talk about today. We’ll never get our time back, so let’s talk about how you can get more of it.
“A surprisingly effective way to get what you want is to not settle for less than what you want”
Do you have time to do everything that you want to do?
Or do you have to cram it into your allotted 2-3 week vacation every year?
“A surprisingly effective way to get what you want is to not settle for less than what you want.
It doesn’t always work—you can’t force the world to be a certain way—and you may need healthy doses of patience and doggedness, but your life bends toward what you accept.”
The bestselling author James Clear said that, and if I was to resonate more, I would ruin the ball-bearings of my office chair.
I can’t tell you how often I hear “I wish I could do X”, or “Hopefully I’ll win the lottery some day”, or “If I had time, I would definitely do X!”
My answer is often “No… No, you wouldn’t, because you’re not prepared for such a thing.”
First off, the majority of people who win great sums of money in the lottery are worse off shortly after, simply because they couldn’t cope with such a big change in their life. It’s kind of like a rubber band – it stretches, but it will fight to snap back.
Is it rude of me to almost disregard their dreams? I would say it’s a bit of tough love, because we all have dreams and goals, but it’s just too easy to not follow through on them. One can hear in the way a person speaks if they are on the path to fulfill their destiny, and most humans tend to go for the easiest route. It’s just how we’re wired.
But what if I told you that reaching the heights of your dreams doesn’t need to be hard?
It’s not your fault that you don’t have everything you want in your life right now. You know why? Because you were never taught these things. Everything you know has been taught through experience, education, your upbringing, etc.
In school, we’re taught to repeat the text of whatever book the teacher has been told to teach us. “Study this, and remember these words.” Okay, great, but why did I know more about the second world war than I did about my own potential when I was done studying? I barely remember my classmates anymore, let alone what we studied together.
How is it that we are taught what everybody else is doing, but not how to do amazing things ourselves?
I have quite a few theories, but none of them came from school. I learned these things from going on my own hunt for knowledge. And let me tell you, once you see what we humans have been up to since we were huddled around the campfire in those ancient times, you’ll be amazed. We are VERY habitual beings.
So I sat out on the very same quest I want to share with you.
- You don’t know what you don’t know.
- You know that you don’t know.
- You know, and you’re implementing what you know.
- You know it so well, it’s second nature.
These are the 4 levels of learning, and most people are either at 1 or 2, depending on how much they’ve desired a change in their life. Before you knew what 2+2 was, there was no way of knowing the answer. Not until you learned the concept and frame of mind that you need to use while solving mathematical problems. Makes sense, right?
This goes for anything! E=mc² is just a fancy string of words until you understand the reasoning behind it.
“Don’t let schooling get in the way of your education”
I invite you to consider that you are capable of far – FAR – more than what you’ve been led to believe.
We used to live in tribes. Communities were mainly made out of families. Over time, as our technology and cleverness reached new heights, new systems were introduced. All of a sudden, time was not measured by the sun crossing the sky, it became a tool to measure when we wake up, when to be at work, when to eat lunch, regardless of being hungry or not, etc.
We were conditioned to follow structure and time tables already in kindergarten, which developed into a more advanced and rigid system once we started school, and then finally at our jobs. Some picked their job already at 15 years old when someone asked “What will you be for the rest of your life? Pick a card with a title, and follow that from now until ever.”
Back in the ‘good old days’, schools were in communication with the factories about how to best prepare their students for the work they were destined to do for their employer. They didn’t need to know more, because the world had changed. The industrial revolution was something everyone would benefit from.
That is until it was overtaken by greed and profits. When the workload increased, and the salaries dropped, so that the employer could line their pockets even more, a trend emerged. A trend that we follow to this day. Our parents were taught by their parents, who were taught by their parents, who were… -you get the point.
But as our world evolved, these old and outdated systems started to become redundant. Yet most of us are still unaware of exactly what we’re capable of, simply because we are not introduced to anything different.
Right now, a new industrial trend is emerging, where employers will hire and fire employees through an app. Their performance is measured through datapoints in an algorithm, which takes all of the humanity out of the process. With the Internet being as it is, there is infinite numbers of new canditates to pick from, meaning that they can drive down salaries even more.
You might not have been aware of some of the things that I have shared so far, but let’s not focus on the past. You’re here because you saw something that might help you in your journey, so let’s focus on what you could have in your future instead.
First, I want to invite your brain to the party. That amazing 3-pound grey thing that we have behind our eyes. Inside it, magic is happening every split second of every day, and when we know how this magic is created, we can create magic when we want to, both in our own lives and in the lives of those around us.
We have a “sorting mechanism” in there, called the Reticular Activating System, or RAS for short. Its main job is to answer your questions. So if you ask yourself “How many horses are there in the world?”, your RAS will start “highlighting” horses that you come across. It’s simply doing its job. This goes for anything, and it is a literal superpower.
Let’s say you ask “Why am I so loved?”. The important part here is “AM I”, as if it’s part of your reality right now, even if you might feel like you lack this in your life at the moment. You will start noticing all the things that highlight what an amazing person you are, and go “Oooh, THAT’S why I’m so loved!”
… with practice, of course.
But it can also be your worst enemy if you keep thinking “Why is nothing that I want ever happening in my life?”, or “This is just typical… Everything bad always seems to happen to me!”, your RAS will find the answers for you, and you’ll be stuck in a negative feedback loop.
Now, bringing this into the context of what you’re reading, if you’ve learned anything so far, your RAS is already at work, because it has new information to work with, which brings me to the next point of our amazing brain.
In simple terms, this means that we are ALWAYS able to change how we think, how we act, what we feel, and so on.
Because our brains are capable of creating new pathways between neurons; the more we learn, the more our brain evolves, and it can NEVER shrink back to its original size.
It means that it’s biologically impossible for you to go backwards. If you learn something, or your subconscious mind picks up something, it’s there forever. You just need to know how to bring it to the surface if and when you should need it.
This is what I’ve been focusing on for the past 3 years of my life. I’ve been learning how to learn and how to build the habit of breaking bad ones and installing new ones.
You’re reading this because you saw some video or read some post. Maybe we talked, or maybe you received an email. The point is; you’re here for a reason. What you’ve seen so far is merely the beginning. It’s the top-level of that crusty-like snow on top of Mount Everest.
How do I know that?
Because as much as I teach, I also study relentlessly.
I’ve learned so much, and I’m still learning new things each and every day. The only difference is that it’s happening faster and faster as I learn more and more.
I want to give this gift to you.
It’s a set of values and frameworks that enables me to think differently, and it has changed my entire existence. If you don’t know about my transformation(and honestly, why should you care about my transformation?), one can easily follow my journey from before the day I started this whole adventure. Everything has been documented to some degree, which is important because of one key thing.
If I can do it, so can you.
The normal reaction to such a statement is “No, I can’t because X”. You might think that, because of your past, you can’t have what I want to give you. Maybe it’s because you think it’ll take too much time. Time you don’t have. Maybe it’s because
- you have a family to take care of, so you can’t do “one more thing”
- you have a job that drains you, so you can’t find the energy for something new
- you did bad in school, so “obviously” you’d do bad now as well
- you have bad genes from your parents
- your parents did something a certain way, and now you’re destined to do the same
- you lack skills that you’ve seen others have, and think you’re “just not that person”
- you have some chronic illness that prevents you from achieving your goal
- you don’t believe you can, or even deserve to achieve greatness
- your spouse wouldn’t like you to do something new in your life
- you’re too young
- you’re too old
- your “luck” just wouldn’t allow good things to happen
This list could go on FOREVER. I’ve heard it all, and because of it, I have good news for you.
What we teach in The FML Project goes way beyond all those things. Even if some or all of them were 100% true, what we teach will leave the false BS redundant. Oh, BS is short for Belief System.
We do everything in life according to our beliefs. If you’re religious, it’s because at some point in your life, you learned something that made so much sense to you that it changed the way you see the world. It changed your current belief system.
If you’re an angry person, it might be because you were subjected to situations that brought out that anger, and over time, reinforced it to the point where it became a habit and part of your personal BS. We do what we learn and see other do, and if we’re not taught differently, we’ll continue to live life in the way we learned it.
This goes for anything, so we want to teach you how to apply this knowledge in your own life, so that you can gain an unfair advantage.
Why is it “unfair”? You would be amazed if you knew how many people go their entire life without being aware of themselves. The points I’ve made so far are unknown to the vast majority of people, because most people are more interested in social media and news than what they can do in life.
Who am I to say all of this?
My name is Tor. I’m honored to be the father of two amazing aspiring superheroes. I love Norse mythology, quantum physics, and everything else about our cosmos.
I was diagnosed with an inoperable blood clot at age 18, and because of the negative mentality it bestowed on me, I managed to burn down a local mall, landing me $4 million in criminal debt.
The events of my life taught me invaluable lessons that no school could ever teach. I also flunked out of school with a 0.6 GPA out of 6. My life seemed to be destined for failure.
I committed 3 armed robberies during the time I identified as a criminal. Everyone else had judged me as such, so filling my role wasn’t hard. Because of that, I spent almost 3 years in prison, where I battled the urge of snapping my neck in the sink while I was in complete solitary confinement.
When I got out of prison -despite my desire to start a new life, I lost all the jobs I landed because of the blood clot. I had to find solutions that would enable me to provide for myself, because I failed at what I tried to achieve all the time.
I was blessed with a son that pushed me even more, although me and his mother split up.
As I was taking a break from my quest to build a life for myself, I met a girl. We moved in with each other and had a beautiful baby girl 2 years later. We were fighting the government for her citizenship the entire time, while living on next to nothing, because the government denied everything due to her “alien origins”.
We lost that battle and shortly after my daughter turned 1, I had to drop them off at the airport for their deportation. This is the event that changed everything for me.
As people go to their deathbed, they may feel regret as they see their life flash before their eyes, while wishing they had done more with the short lives we’re all given.
The second I lost sight of my family, I had a similar experience as I broke down in the airport.
As one can see in the video from that day, I vowed to fix that situation. The best way I saw how to do that, was to build myself up until I could take on the entire flawed system. Big goals, I know, but today – 3 years later, as I’m writing this – it’s exactly what I’m doing.
I don’t have the debt anymore. And despite the verdict of “specialists”, who spent 13 years trying to fix the “inoperable” blood clot, I managed to fix it myself through epigenetics and quantum physics. It’s a lot easier than it might seem.
My family was by my side 8 months and 12 days after I lost them, and I vowed to give them everything they deserve.
I live the ultimate dream life, and because I know how I got here, I want to share that with everyone who’s seeking to reach their dream as well.
The journey doesn’t need to be hard. When you’re guided by those who’ve already been through the storm, you always have the support you need to undertake your challenges.
So I invite you, my fellow seeker, to join us. Create a free account on this website, and start taking your transformation seriously, because we will do whatever we can to help you achieve your dreams.
In a world filled with negativity and strife, we need more people with the resources to create a positive impact for others.
If this sounds like you, and you’re ready to create your mark upon the world, I invite you to book a free Strategy Session today. Right now, because as far as I’m concerned, we’ve wasted enough time trying to fix our society with the same thoughts that got us into this mess in the first place.
To your new adventure,